{"id":11428,"date":"2024-06-25T12:06:36","date_gmt":"2024-06-25T16:06:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/joiemoi.com\/about-rebounds-what-got-you-here-wont-get-you-there\/"},"modified":"2024-06-27T09:01:21","modified_gmt":"2024-06-27T13:01:21","slug":"what-got-you-here-wont-get-you-there","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/joiemoi.com\/fr\/what-got-you-here-wont-get-you-there\/","title":{"rendered":"What got you here, won\u2019t get you there"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"11428\" class=\"elementor elementor-11428 elementor-11221\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8dff291 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default qodef-elementor-content-no qodef-elementor-column-no\" data-id=\"8dff291\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container 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.e-q-footer{flex-direction:row}.elementor-blockquote--align-right .elementor-blockquote__content{text-align:right}.elementor-blockquote--align-right .elementor-blockquote .e-q-footer{flex-direction:row-reverse}.elementor-blockquote--align-center .elementor-blockquote{text-align:center}.elementor-blockquote--align-center .elementor-blockquote .e-q-footer,.elementor-blockquote--align-center .elementor-blockquote__author{display:block}.elementor-blockquote--align-center .elementor-blockquote__tweet-button{margin-right:auto;margin-left:auto}<\/style>\t\t<blockquote class=\"elementor-blockquote\">\n\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-blockquote__content\">\n\t\t\t\t\"[\u2026] is what our ancestors have known for thousands of years: \u201csic transit gloria mundi\u201d\u2013 i.e. so passes the glory of the world. In other words, all glory is fleeting. All victory is temporary.\"\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-q-footer\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<cite class=\"elementor-blockquote__author\">Hugh MacLeod<\/cite>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/blockquote>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1d60d98 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default qodef-elementor-content-no qodef-elementor-column-no\" data-id=\"1d60d98\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4e0e450\" data-id=\"4e0e450\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-de05551 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"de05551\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.22.0 - 26-06-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p>You have achieved to put your house in order and YES! That is a great victory! It is a feat worth celebrating!<\/p><p>Now what? Take a moment to look at how far you\u2019ve come and sit with it for a while.<\/p><p>Is it how you imagined it would be like? Feel like?<\/p><p>Is this happily ever after?<\/p><p>You might notice the arrival fallacy hanging out in the back, snickering at the chances of relapsing back into clutter. The key to lasting happiness does not lie in an organized home. How you decide to live from now on, the choices you make, the habits that you will incorporate, are what will help you shape your future.<\/p><p>The physical transformation that your home underwent combined with all the internal struggles that you overcame are the experiences that is going to empower you to keep your space in order. The work that you put into shifting your mindset will increase the chances for the results to become habits.<\/p><p>The process is where the real magic happens.<\/p><p>The long term goal of decluttering is to find what is important to you. It is to cultivate a life that is true to you. It is an ongoing journey of choosing yourself and what is good for you.<\/p><p>The relationship you build with your home is one of mutual respect. A safe place where you can honour your belongings and where the home can nurture you.<\/p><p>And then you can make your way to There.<\/p><p>The road to There is purpose.<\/p><p>When you aim for There, you will continue forward while the chances of rebounds are slowly disappearing in the rear view mirror.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b7a2daa elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default qodef-elementor-content-no qodef-elementor-column-no\" data-id=\"b7a2daa\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6ba7bf5\" data-id=\"6ba7bf5\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-939d3a5 elementor-widget__width-inherit elementor-widget elementor-widget-hiroshi_core_single_image\" data-id=\"939d3a5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"hiroshi_core_single_image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"qodef-shortcode qodef-m  qodef-single-image qodef-layout--default   \">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"qodef-m-image\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"899\" height=\"472\" src=\"https:\/\/joiemoi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/too-big-to-fail.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/joiemoi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/too-big-to-fail.png 899w, https:\/\/joiemoi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/too-big-to-fail-300x158.png 300w, https:\/\/joiemoi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/too-big-to-fail-768x403.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 899px) 100vw, 899px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-23e44b5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"23e44b5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.22.0 - 26-06-2024 *\/\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}<\/style><p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.gapingvoid.com\/too-big-to-fail\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/www.gapingvoid.com\/too-big-to-fail\/<\/a><\/p>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00ab\u00a0[\u2026] is what our ancestors have known for thousands of years: \u201csic transit gloria mundi\u201d\u2013 i.e. so passes the glory of the world. 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